夏休みの宿題をしないで、ゲームばかりしています

 
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夏休みに入り1週間が経ちました。毎日のご飯や、宿題など、この時期ならではのママのお悩みがきっとあるかなと思います。

その中の一つが、宿題をしないでゲームばかりしている。うちもそうです(笑)

次女は小学3年生。勉強よりもゲーム、そしてYouTubeが好きです。

夏休みの宿題もたくさんあり、やっていないときは大丈夫かなと気になります。

気づくとYouTube見ているので、一瞬「また見てるよ。」と思うこともあります。

以前の私なら、「また宿題やらないでYouTubeばっかり。もう何時間見てるの?やめなさい!」

こんなことを言っていたと思います。

でも、宿題は本人がやるもの。やるかどうかは本人の選択。

私ができることは、次女が宿題をやりたくなるような関わり、つまり私と次女の関係を良好に保つことに焦点を当てることに徹することにしました。

私 「今日は何の宿題やることになってる?」

次女「今日はドリルと読書感想文。ドリルは自分でできるけど、読書感想文は全然できない。わからないんだもん。」

私 「そっか。ママ今ちょっとパソコンでお仕事するから、その間一緒にドリルやらない?お仕事が終わったら、読書感想文のお手伝いするよ。どう?」

次女「いいよ。じゃあ、これ見終わったらまず算数やる!」

宿題をやらない理由も、本人の中にあります。聴いてみることで、どこでつまづいているかわかります。

一緒に勉強する時間を共にしながら、前に進めるよう支援する。

読書感想文は、やはり一人では難しいので、少しお手伝いをする。

ガミガミ言わなくても、ちょっと背中を押す関わりで、自ら進んで勉強するようになります。

良好な関係を築きながら、子どもの自立心を育むことは技術です。

ぜひ長い夏休みを、お互いごきげんに過ごして参りましょう!

 

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