自分の感情にフタをして、感じないふりをすること、ありませんか？
この記事を書いている人 - WRITER -
横浜市在住。
夫と2人の娘の4人家族。
助産師として病院勤務後、地域で助産院開業。
産後の母乳育児支援を行う。
のべ1500人以上のママさんのおっぱいケアを通して、ママの心と体に寄り添い、ママが笑顔で楽しく育児できるよう活動中。
横浜市母子訪問指導員
JPSAベーシックプロスピーカー
日本助産師会保健指導部会委員
5月16日 ゴローが天国へ逝きました。
18歳でした。
前日の夜、とうとうお水も飲まなくなったので、今夜が最後かもとお別れをしました。
家族みんなで抱っこして、『ありがとうね。愛してるよ』とたくさん伝えました。
朝起きてみると、ほんのりあたたかいけれど、もうゴローはそこにはいませんでした。
悲しくて、淋しくて。。
動けなくても、そこにいてくれるだけで、私たち家族を支えてくれていたんだと、ゴローの存在の大きさを実感しました。
火葬場に連れて行き、お別れをして、お骨を拾いました。
火葬場のおじいさんが、「寿命を全うした立派な骨だよ」と褒めてくださいました。
本当はそのまま納骨する予定でしたが、骨になったゴローも愛おしくて、一旦自宅へと連れて帰ってきました。
毎日お線香をあげて、手を合わせ、骨壺をなでなで。
日々の忙しさで、自分の感情と向き合わないまま、2週間以上が経ちました。
「淋しい。ゴローに会いたい。大好きだよ。」
ふとした瞬間に、自分の感情が噴出して、涙が止まりませんでした。
日常の中で、自分の感情にフタをして、感じないふりをすること、ありませんか？
でも、フタをし続けると、いつか爆発して、こじらせてしまいます。
子どものときの満たされなかった思いを何十年も抱えて生きている大人も、実はたくさんいます。
大切なことは、今自分はこう感じているんだねと、自分が自分に寄り添うことです。
自分で『よしよしヾ(・ω・｀)』しているイメージです。！
誰よりも自分の理解者でいてあげることが、ご機嫌でいる秘訣ですね☆彡
この記事を書いている人 - WRITER -
横浜市在住。
夫と2人の娘の4人家族。
助産師として病院勤務後、地域で助産院開業。
産後の母乳育児支援を行う。
のべ1500人以上のママさんのおっぱいケアを通して、ママの心と体に寄り添い、ママが笑顔で楽しく育児できるよう活動中。
横浜市母子訪問指導員
JPSAベーシックプロスピーカー
日本助産師会保健指導部会委員
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